Is Love in teenagehood good ?

 Hey guys. Welcome back to another blog. As usual, don't forget to subscribe my blog and leave your comments below. So, the title says it clear that what I am going to let you guys know today! Before that, for those having healthy relationships, don't take me wrong! This is for those having toxic relationships and ending their lives with Love as the reason.

Hmmm, I bet you guys wonder whether I am single or not? Just leave your thoughts in the comment section. Accurate comment gets a reply from me. Okay, jokes apart. What I really want to tell to the girls who just got cheated and thinking they don't need to be alive! Hello! Yeah, you girl. Did that guy really deserve you? Duh, come on! Do you really think that guy that you just knew for months really know everything about you? Then who are your parents living for? Okay, this sounds like suicide prevention talk or something but let me be honest for a while!

The perfect person doesn't exist! Everyone has their flaws. Even you and I are not perfect. Then why should we expect for someone who should be perfect and end up disappointed? Girls, if you really want to get committed just take a deep breath and sit down in your room or study desk. Take a piece of paper and list down all your needs, prioritise it. Now If you put Love at first then I have no rights to stop you but if love doesn't even come in that list, is it necessary for you? 

I might sound rude or you might not like what I wrote so far but I have something for you. Be patient and continue reading. Imagine, posing with your parents and favourite lecturers and being awarded the gold medal in university during your graduation day. Then, you are receiving a phone call or an important email. You are checking it and it states that you have been selected for the campus interview that you attended. It turns out that it is your dream job. This happens when you focus on your credits and studies. Okay, now imagine that you've been cheated by someone whom you loved so much. Now you're thinking life is miserable without him. So, you plan to end your life. Now I didn't mean you to imagine this part. Now start imagining that your parents seeing you ending your life over a boy who just got another girl. Your mom who carried in the womb for 9 months is now totally broken. Your dad who never cried his sobbing.

Girl, I didn't mean to hurt you but think about your parents first. Your loved ones! The moment you realized that the unconditional love is from your parents is prioritized, oh girl I salute you. It is not necessary to be in a relationship when you're just 16 or even younger. The thing is what are you going to do to pay off all your parents sacrifices? They lost so much for you. They might not share the sad memories they went through with you but that doesn't mean they didn't go through hard times. 

Now, for those who are in a relationship...I have only one thing to say. Please both stay loyal to each other. That's it. Motivate each other and spend time together. Don't listen to gossips because today it might be someone else but tomorrow it might be you! When you both are loyal, I am sure you guys are really having healthy relationship. That's all from me! Do check out my next posts too!